Santa baby

In the spirit of Christmas..

I loathe the process of shopping, but I love giving people presents! But when I'm stumped on what to get them, it is a constant mind game of being self conscious if they like it or not. This year has been a little bit different for me. I actually wanted to give gifts that came from the soul and with consideration - meaning not slapping a bullshit "with love" tag on the present. I sincerely have not been anticipating what I would be receiving this year, but rather anxious to see their reactions are when they open theirs. Since I was being productive and proactive with getting early Christmas gifts this year, I spoiled myself a bit with a couple of splurges here and there - my Christmas present(s) to myself which I love every single one of them!

On a side note: I had a couple requests to post up more things relating to fashion/clothes so I will probably start posting up some goodies I've got a chance to get my hands on or my current likes rather than rambling about nonsense.

Update: I just came back from a family Secret Santa gift exchange dinner and I enjoyed myself so much! Besides the great laughs from shared stories and delicious food, my Secret Santa gave me some MAC goodies! Thank you Diane!


MAC Lipsticks - Creme Cup & Faux
MAC Haute & Naughty Mascara - Black
MAC Eye Khol Liner - Smolder
MAC Paint Pot - Painterly

Happy holidays lovebugs! <3

XOXO

We think you're a joke. Shove your hope where it don't shine

My Mama J taught me:

We don't say "dating," we say "talking."
Instead of saying "we're in a relationship," we say "we're a thing."
We forgot "making love" and learned to say "fucking."
It's no wonder our generation doesn't know the meaning of commitment.

Where is the love?
I know where mine is.

XOXO

During the game of lust

A Poem For Swingers

"I like women who haven’t lived with too many men.
I don’t expect virginity but I simply prefer women
who haven’t been rubbed raw by experience.

There is a quality about women who choose
men sparingly;
it appears in their walk
in their eyes
in their laughter and in their
gentle hearts.

Women who have had too many men
seem to choose the next one
out of revenge rather than with
feeling.

When you play the field selfishly everything
works against you:
one can’t insist on love or
demand affection.
You’re finally left with whatever
you have been willing to give
which often is:
nothing.

Some women are delicate things
some women are delicious and
wondrous.

If you want to piss on the sun
go ahead
but please leave them
alone."

- Charles Bukowski

A man who couldn't be more right.
A man who knows how twisted and illogical the mind can be.
A man who reveals the unspoken truth.
A man who shows the sad reality of life through sex and booze.
A man who I'd love to hate.

But a man who couldn't be more right.

XOXO

Dear Sharon

Sharon Nguyen

Your moxie during your journey through life has significantly impacted the purity of others' hearts. Not a moment goes by forgetting how much you have brought such warm and love into this world.

May you rest in peace, beautiful soul.

XOXO

You've got me up against the wall

My current craving is watching Chicago and Moulin Rouge.
Let the feast begin.

Mental note: New Year's resolution will be to get into shape! Let's see how long that will last..

XOXO